As longtime readers of my blog know, I had a small epiphany back in October with regards to how I view myself. Since then, I’ve been doing very well, and I truly believe that I’m as calm and confident as I’ve been in a long time. In fact, several people have told me that they’ve noticed a change in how I carry myself (for the better), so I must be doing something right. But anyway, onwards to the stupid thought promised in this post title…
While being told that you’re a very nice person (by several people) and attractive enough (by fewer people) is great and all, I have an itch that I haven’t been able to scratch sufficiently in over 3 years. You guessed it: I’ve swung back to the “Hey, it’d be great to have a girlfriend again!” line of thinking. But wait…there’s more.
As best as I can reasonably estimate, I can now describe my dating situation as a Venn diagram in which the sets “ladies I’d like to date” and “ladies who’d like to date me” do not intersect. (If you believe this to not be the case, just…oh, never mind.) Therefore, it stands to reason that I, Jesse Whidden, should meet new people. My situation is complicated further (kinda) by the fact that I don’t know where I’ll be living after December, as the whole long-term thing would be preferable. So…any suggestions on how I should go about this? Should I delve into the depths of online dating sites? Do I need to beat myself senselessly for sharing this with you in the first place? 
that assumes that neither one of the circles in your venn diagram is an empty set
I know for a fact that at least one of the circles is notan empty set…would Captain Anonymous like to elaborate on which circle he/she believes to be null?